Finding Your Person: Even If It’s You: Relationship Advice from TikTok’s Big Sister

The author, a first-generation Filipino American teacher from the San Francisco Bay area, has millions of TikTok followers and thousands of Insta and other social network followers. Anne’s book, like her TikTok, offers guidelines and tips for navigating crushes and dating in the online dating world and in real life. Her book reads like the relationship column of Teen Vogue, mixed with short stories and quotes about friendship and love relationships. The first half of the book explores trendy relationship topics like love languages, red flags, green flags, and crushing on your best friend. In the second half of the book, she gives advice on how to maintain the ups and downs of friend relationships. Whether one is facing trouble in one’s friendship because a new romantic relationship is taking up too much of one’s time, or if one’s friendship is fizzling out for other reasons, she discusses the difficulty of losing friendships and offers tips to help deal with that loss. Finally, she talks about self-love and how important it is to cultivate a healthy relationship with oneself.